MY
HEAD HURTS Monday 06/08/2012
It's
a funny thing about my journey, there have been many twists and
turns, some of which have taught me lessons, others where I hadn't
learnt the lessons and had to repeat the experience until I had. I
believe I will never stop learning and don't want to. If I push
against my comfort zone so I am a little uncomfortable, get used to
that spot, then push again, I have to grow.
This
weekend I finished a boot camp teaching about real estate. It has
filled my head right up with some very full-on information and it is
quite full. There was a lot
of information in this three day bootcamp to get my head around and
some of it went in and some I am going to have to re-read / watch /
listen to, to get it to go in. It was stressful at times, as we had
very little spare time and my lady and I got a little stressed and
antsy with each other but we got past that like every other time. We
are a bit shagged at the moment but we'll get there. This boot-camp
like everything in my life, I may have to work hard to drive the
lessons home.
I
am glad that I am taking myself past my comfort zone as I have had
enough of my life the way it was and now want more control and better
results and a better quality of life. My life is currently like this
on the quality-o-meter;
Adulthood
Birth First marriage
Second
marriage My life NOW Where
I want it
|_____|___|_|___________________|______________________________________________|
Low High
Of
course this journey is going to be challenging, scary, exciting,
enlightening and should make me an even better version of who I am
now. There is a saying that “People only change when the pain of
change is less than the pain of staying the same”. I have had the
pain of poor relationships, career, finances, health and I have had
enough. There is too much pain there. I have started to change and
realise that the pain form the change is not that scary so I'm giving
the change a go. Of course, I've had times when I've had the lesson but didn't learn it, or ignored it, but I feel I've finally woken up. Bring on the roller-coaster. I'll keep you posted on how I'm going. I'm looking
forward to what comes.
You
also have to decide if you are comfortable pushing your comfort zone
and growing. How much pain are you willing to tolerate to create the
life you say you want? What do you decide? What is your choice?
Wayne
Brown is a facilitator for life change. Contact him at
or
listen to his podcasts at
www.the7bigquestions.podomatic.com
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