Sat
28/07/2012
I
was reminiscing about the early days with my relationship with my lady today, and I recall how about a year before I met her, I tried doing
something I had heard Anthony Robbins talk about. He had said that
before he met his partner Paige, he had written down all the elements
he wanted in a potential partner, and he read them every day to drive
into his subconscious and send out to the universe what he wanted.
Then when he had met her he found the list that he had written down,
which he hadn't looked at in a while and realised that she was
exactly what he had written down. After hearing this I decided to
try it. I had nothing to lose. I wrote down the attributes that I
find attractive and desirable in a partner and also recorded me
reading it out. I then read it regularly and listened to it as I
drove my car. I did this for a few months and then stopped. About
six months later, I had a friend who was starting a singles support /
social group ask if I could be her wingman as she checked out various
other clubs. We went to a few private ones, that were dreary
affairs, and when she mentioned one on Christmas eve at the casino in
Perth, I was hesitant and was about to say no, when a little voice in
my head said, 'Remember you agreed that you would be her wingman at
this expeditions'. Of course I couldn't argue with that, and went.
I went with no expectation of meeting anyone (I wasn't in a good
place internally), I was just going to have fun. Of course the rest
is history. I met my lady, who has fulfilled just about every one of my
criteria. I am so much happier now in my life than before. If you
are looking for a partner you could try this for yourself. If you
already have a partner, try seeing how they match up with your list.
Always bear in mind that you also have to be a partner who deserves
someone like your list. If you really want to make it interesting,
get your partner to make a list and see how many you match up with.
Of course, the key here is not that you are trying to change your
partner, but if you can make them aware, and they decide to change
that is fantastic. If not, they at least are aware of it. The same
applies to you and the attributes that your partner would like.
Send
me an email to the7bigquestions@yahoo.com
if you like and let me know what you've put down. I'd be interested
to know.
Remember,
you have the choice.
Wayne
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